Comments on: Is it Possible to get Out of the ‘Friend Zone’? http://www.daxxterity.com/is-it-possible-to-get-out-of-the-freind-zone Dating Tips & Relationship Advice Thu, 10 Jun 2010 11:13:22 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Chance http://www.daxxterity.com/is-it-possible-to-get-out-of-the-freind-zone/comment-page-1#comment-651 Chance Thu, 14 Jan 2010 16:58:01 +0000 http://www.daxxterity.com/?p=174#comment-651 That picture is a lie as The Friend Zone is absolutely and utterly void of any boobage. That picture is a lie as The Friend Zone is absolutely and utterly void of any boobage.

]]> By: Dating Coach Braddock On Flirting and Sending Mixed Signals | Asian Dating Coach http://www.daxxterity.com/is-it-possible-to-get-out-of-the-freind-zone/comment-page-1#comment-627 Dating Coach Braddock On Flirting and Sending Mixed Signals | Asian Dating Coach Sat, 26 Dec 2009 20:08:30 +0000 http://www.daxxterity.com/?p=174#comment-627 [...] who are good with women are also very good at this. Before I discovered Love Systems, I was always stuck in the friend zone. I was always hearing from the girl I was interested in, “Do you think John likes me? [...] [...] who are good with women are also very good at this. Before I discovered Love Systems, I was always stuck in the friend zone. I was always hearing from the girl I was interested in, “Do you think John likes me? [...]

]]> By: Arden Leigh http://www.daxxterity.com/is-it-possible-to-get-out-of-the-freind-zone/comment-page-1#comment-329 Arden Leigh Thu, 19 Nov 2009 07:11:19 +0000 http://www.daxxterity.com/?p=174#comment-329 I've been chatting with Savoy and came across your blog through his. I like your stuff. I mostly coach women, but I think there are a lot of similarities here as women can sometimes get stuck in a buddy box as well (not as often, but with high-valued males, it's an easy mistake since building attraction is so critical before skipping to emotional connection). I have to say my favorite strategy for getting out of the friend zone is push-pull combined with a pivot punish. Let me explain: 1. When a target LJBFs you, the first thing to do is agree with them that being friends is the best thing to do. Continue to build attraction through light teasing and kino, and then the moment they respond and escalate, immediately push them away and say "We're just friends!" (As a woman, I've been in this situation and literally slapped the guy for trying to kiss me after we'd "agreed" on an LJBF.) It is especially handy if you can get convincingly upset that they are dicking you around with mixed signals -- this covers your tracks because then they are convinced that they are the ones seducing you, not the reverse. 2. Since you've agreed to be friends, you can go out and meet other people together, like friends do. Go to a bar/club with your LJBF and run game on other targets there. Have said targets fall all over you and ignore your LJBF person. If you're not 100% sure you're going to be successful with other targets, enlist the help of a trustworthy pivot -- a girl who will meet you there to purposefully fawn all over you and leave the bar with you less than an hour later. Leave your LJBF in the dust. 3. Repeat steps one and two. I’ve been chatting with Savoy and came across your blog through his. I like your stuff. I mostly coach women, but I think there are a lot of similarities here as women can sometimes get stuck in a buddy box as well (not as often, but with high-valued males, it’s an easy mistake since building attraction is so critical before skipping to emotional connection).

I have to say my favorite strategy for getting out of the friend zone is push-pull combined with a pivot punish. Let me explain:

1. When a target LJBFs you, the first thing to do is agree with them that being friends is the best thing to do. Continue to build attraction through light teasing and kino, and then the moment they respond and escalate, immediately push them away and say “We’re just friends!” (As a woman, I’ve been in this situation and literally slapped the guy for trying to kiss me after we’d “agreed” on an LJBF.) It is especially handy if you can get convincingly upset that they are dicking you around with mixed signals — this covers your tracks because then they are convinced that they are the ones seducing you, not the reverse.

2. Since you’ve agreed to be friends, you can go out and meet other people together, like friends do. Go to a bar/club with your LJBF and run game on other targets there. Have said targets fall all over you and ignore your LJBF person. If you’re not 100% sure you’re going to be successful with other targets, enlist the help of a trustworthy pivot — a girl who will meet you there to purposefully fawn all over you and leave the bar with you less than an hour later. Leave your LJBF in the dust.

3. Repeat steps one and two.

]]> By: 3 Reasons Why You Should Learn Social Circle Game | Asian Dating Coach Bonsai http://www.daxxterity.com/is-it-possible-to-get-out-of-the-freind-zone/comment-page-1#comment-320 3 Reasons Why You Should Learn Social Circle Game | Asian Dating Coach Bonsai Thu, 12 Nov 2009 15:03:43 +0000 http://www.daxxterity.com/?p=174#comment-320 [...] around in your life. The best approach is to limit contact with her. My boy Daxx wrote a post on getting out of the friend zone if you want to know how to do [...] [...] around in your life. The best approach is to limit contact with her. My boy Daxx wrote a post on getting out of the friend zone if you want to know how to do [...]

]]> By: Daxx http://www.daxxterity.com/is-it-possible-to-get-out-of-the-freind-zone/comment-page-1#comment-155 Daxx Sun, 14 Jun 2009 03:34:37 +0000 http://www.daxxterity.com/?p=174#comment-155 Cheers. I don't mind if you're gonna use it/post it somewhere, as long as you keep it clear it's from my blog & just make sure it links back to this page Cheers. I don’t mind if you’re gonna use it/post it somewhere, as long as you keep it clear it’s from my blog & just make sure it links back to this page

]]> By: Kelly Brown http://www.daxxterity.com/is-it-possible-to-get-out-of-the-freind-zone/comment-page-1#comment-154 Kelly Brown Sat, 13 Jun 2009 03:01:04 +0000 http://www.daxxterity.com/?p=174#comment-154 I really like your post. Does it copyright protected? I really like your post. Does it copyright protected?

]]> By: Braddock http://www.daxxterity.com/is-it-possible-to-get-out-of-the-freind-zone/comment-page-1#comment-93 Braddock Wed, 06 May 2009 16:06:53 +0000 http://www.daxxterity.com/?p=174#comment-93 Nice post dude. You've got the blog looking sharp. See you in Prague baby! -Braddock Nice post dude.

You’ve got the blog looking sharp. See you in Prague baby!

-Braddock

]]> By: Paladin http://www.daxxterity.com/is-it-possible-to-get-out-of-the-freind-zone/comment-page-1#comment-92 Paladin Tue, 05 May 2009 22:37:34 +0000 http://www.daxxterity.com/?p=174#comment-92 Dude that pic is one of the best I have ever seen in my entire life!!! Dude that pic is one of the best I have ever seen in my entire life!!!

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